So I'm spending my fine sunny day writing another very "wordy post" about a issue I'm having and I'm sure you all have had.
People making your life difficult or saying things about your choices in life in.
There are many decisions in life which you make which people may not understand or accept, from the very simple and small to the major.
But what i don't get is why they cant 1. keep there opinions to themselves and 2. why they just cant get over it.
I'm only going to focus on 2 points in this post (only to insure you don't fall asleep half way through) but please leave your situations down bellow because I'm sure you all have loads to share.
So here we go!
Blogging and Youtubing!
Lets face it I'm sure everyone of you has told someone you write a blog or do Youtube and they have given you "that face" you know the one that has a hint of why but mainly are you weird stamped all over it.
I have had some people say to me "that's just weird, your weird" when i told them. To be honest these people are very small minded anyway but i know that i get it from other people.
Why do you think this is?
I think its because they don't understand it, they cant see why i would want to share my opinion, style etc with the whole world. Why i chose to put my life out there for people (like them) to judge and have there opinion on.
And yet i know for a fact they read my blog and watch my videos.
Small life choices - eg going out and drinking.
I am not a big drinker nor do i really enjoy going out (lets me honest folks i would much prefer to spend my money on bags!) but also i prefer to be at home.
I like to watch tv, spend time with Michael (who also doesn't really go out much), blog, read blogs, youtube etc etc.
I constantly get (for lack of a better word) pestered by questions when i either decline a drink or decline going out all together.
And to be honest it pisses me the hell off, i hate the feeling of having to justify myself to everyone and anyone when it such a simple bloody life choice.
I honestly think people just need to understand that when someone says no and you keep going it feels alot like peer pressure and to (sometimes) the point of bullying.
I wont even get started when they just go ahead and buy you a drink!!!!
So I'm sorry for a little rant, but I'm sure you all feel my pain and you have your stories to tell so please do leave it below i look forward to reading them and sharing your pain.